Craziness in the Toledo Mayor's Office

So it would seem that one of the spokespeople for the Toledo Mayor was proverbially speaking "busted" not to long ago for saying in what they believed to be a private blog what he thought about his boss (aka the mayor) and his job at the time. Unfortunately, as it is with most things on the internet, it turned out to be not so private and his blog spilled out in a number of public web sights that document the news, a blog journalism site if you will. Well, this is one reason why you will hopefully speaking, never see a direct rant about any one individual or one thing on my site, but I will hopefully leave enough clues that the ones who know, will "get it" and the ones who don't....ya'll can just speculate. Anyway though, I digress. Why is it that we can't say what we think? We have to be so guarded because we don't want to insult anyone, we have to be mindful of our language and our choice of words in the matters we deal with. Is it possibly a matter of us taking ourselves to seriously? Talk to me here..what do you think?